I have received word that comments may be getting dropped. I have not moderated out any comments in some months for any reason other than obvious spam.
So, if you are seeing your comments vanish, it is not because I hate your stupid face. I mean, I might hate your stupid face, but that is unrelated to the vanishing of your comments (unless you have actually been trying to sell me wedding photography services in India).
I have checked the Spam folder, and they're not there. They're just plain not showing up.
Drop me an email if this is happening to you. firstname.lastname@example.org